Seven Reasons to Have a First Look | Emma Mullins Photography

What exactly is a First Look? These days, any wedding photographer will tell you it’s when a couple decides to see each other on wedding day before their ceremony.

Some of you may be gasping at the thought of going against tradition – others might consider the trend old news. But truthfully, having a First Look on wedding day has become one of the most important decisions a couple will make. The result is usually a combination of tears and laughter… but always full of emotion.

Even though there are many advantages to having First Look, it’s not the best decision for every couple. There are plenty of arguments for and against a First Look, and most of the time I am 100% FOR it. Below you’ll find seven of my favorite reasons why!

Logistics.
You want to spend as much of your wedding day together as possible. Especially for ceremonies that are later in the day, I always encourage couples to make time for a First Look. Everyone tells you your wedding day will be over before you know it, and – they’re right! If you’re apart until 6 pm, that’s a large portion of the day you could spend making sweet wedding memories with each other.
Lighting.
This reason has everything to do with photography. Depending on what time of year you’re getting married, the sun could set anywhere between 4:30 and 8:30pm in Chicago. Keep in mind that if your ceremony begins later in the day, there may not be much time for natural light photos of you and your partner. What does this mean? No gorgeous greenery, no fall colors, no sunshine, no golden hour. Yes, we can take separate solo portraits, family and wedding party photos during daylight hours, but every single Newlywed photo from your wedding day will be taken with artificial light. If that’s not the aesthetic you’re going for, definitely consider (an earlier ceremony time or) having a First Look!
Privacy.
It’s a moment you can enjoy together, alone. As the guests of honor you’ll have places to be, and a timeline to keep up with. Yes – your day will be filled with your favorite people, but there won’t be much opportunity for just the two of you to spend time together. Having a First Look guarantees a few moments of privacy on your wedding day. Some couples even choose to exchange personal vows during this time (in lieu of the ceremony), which makes for really unique and intimate photos.
Nerves.
Let’s face it: your wedding day is kind of a big deal. There’s a lot going on – the result of months of planning and decision-making. Of course you want it to be perfect! No matter how your emotions may be running, any nerves will melt away the moment you see each other (pinky swear!). We’ve seen it time and time again. First Looks are one of my favorite things to photograph for this reason.
More photos!
This might seem like an easy one, but it’s worth mentioning. If you have a First Look you’ll receive an extra set of portraits in your gallery that wouldn’t exist otherwise.
Stage fright.
Remember when I mentioned that First Looks can be emotional? Imagine experiencing that moment in front of 100+ guests with all eyes on YOU. Be prepared to let those emotions run while on display – or not allow yourself to experience them fully. Even if you don’t consider yourself an outwardly emotional person, your wedding day could be the exception. If this does not sound appealing to you, I highly recommend a First Look.
Authenticity.
Have you been dreaming about the look on your partner’s face as you walk down the aisle? Or, as they walk down the aisle toward you? Trust me: that moment will still be REAL and still be emotional. You will be just as excited to see each other during that moment whether you’re apart all day or spend it together.

Bonus Reason: We Like To Party!

It’s true: With a First Look, you’ll have the option to complete ALL your formal group photos before the ceremony even begins. Meaning: once it’s officially official, you can relax, let loose, and ENJOY the party alongside your loved ones. Once that ring is on your finger, not having to worry about an agenda or chasing daylight will be such a gift! Additionally, you can rest assured that we’ve already captured countless candid moments, stunning portraits, and group photos. Any time we pull you for portraits after this (night photos, anyone?!) are just an added bonus.

Don’t believe me? See for yourself! Below is a collection of pre-ceremony First Looks we’ve photographed, and a few ceremony first looks for comparison. Meaning: there’s a mix of couples who did see each other before the ceremony, and others who did not.

Can you tell the difference?