Five Reasons to Have a Micro Wedding (Pandemic or Not!)

It’s a COVID-19 world, and I’m blogging on Sunday! After spending another would-be wedding weekend at home, I decided to write an ode to “Micro” weddings.

Understandably, many couples have decided to postpone their big wedding plans for brighter days ahead. Others, however, are opting to keep their original dates… with a few minor tweaks! Due to regulations for group gatherings (not to mention health and safety concerns), Micro Weddings are on the rise.

What exactly is a “Micro Wedding,” you ask? I’m referring to intimate ceremonies, elopements, or any small event where two people become married. This may include a handful of guests or just the couple and officiant (and/or witnesses if required).

Five Reasons to Have a Micro Wedding:

  1. A relaxed wedding day. Honestly, this could be reason enough! Without a timeline to keep up with or 100+ people to coordinate, you’ll have a chance to really focus on each other. Enjoy your wedding day doing the things you love together… and take your time! This could mean waking up early to watch the sun rise or an impromptu ice cream break – just because.
  2. Flexibility. Similarly, without a large group to accommodate, you’ll have more flexibility in terms of where you can get married. Meaning, instead of a trip to Marriage Court, you could tie the knot some place picturesque or meaningful. Ever think of getting married on your front porch? The place you first met? Locations pictured below include Montrose Harbor, Alfred Caldwell Lily Pool and New York City’s High Line.
  3. Getting ready together. Okay, okay – you could do this with a big wedding, too. In my experience, however, it’s much more common with smaller, intimate ceremonies. I always LOVE when couples choose to do this! Besides, who else is going to zip your dress or pin your bouttonière if it’s just the two of you?
  4. A personal guest experience. If you’re planning to have a handful of guests attend your wedding, this gives you the opportunity to really personalize their experience. At larger weddings, it’s not uncommon for newlyweds to miss greeting a guest or two – much less spend quality time with each and every one.
  5. You can still celebrate BIG TIME later! It’s true! No matter what your reasons for downsizing the wedding day guest list, you can still throw the party of a lifetime months later. Once regulations loosen up and group gatherings are safe again, your guests will be MORE than eager to celebrate with you. Pinky swear.

Hope this has been helpful! Of course, a Micro Wedding isn’t for every couple, but if you’re considering it: know that your wedding day will be just as memorable. Just make sure you have a photographer there to capture it for you 🙂

Don’t believe me? See for yourself! Here’s a few favorites from Micro Weddings and Elopements I’ve had the pleasure to capture over the years. Links to full weddings and Additional Resources below!

Happy bride and groom jump with joy after their downtown Chicago elopement
London couple with Marriage Court sign for their destination Chicago elopement
London couple's destination Chicago elopement downtown with Greetings From Chicago mural
Creative photo of brides getting ready together in mirror at Hotel Lincoln in Chicago
Summer Chicago Cultural Center civil ceremony in GAR Memorial Hall
Bride and groom exchange rings during spring Chicago elopement ceremony
Chicago couple toast beers at their intimate Metropolitan Brewing wedding
Black and white photo of just married couple on escalator after their destination Chicago elopement at City Hall
Bride and groom's Chicago elopement ceremony at Montrose Harbor with their dogs
Bride and groom embrace after their intimate Chicago elopement ceremony
Bride and groom in front of Chicago Theatre after their downtown Chicago elopement
Candid photo of London couple at City Hall after their destination Chicago elopement
Brides exchange vows during their intimate Alfred Caldwell Lily Pool wedding ceremony
Just married brides at their September Alfred Caldwell Lily Pool wedding
Bride and groom at Cook County Marriage Court for their surprise Chicago elopement
Just eloped! Chicago couple on LaSalle Bridge after their surprise December elopement
Happy bride and groom celebrate with colorful Chicago mural after their City Hall elopement
London couple on downtown bridge after their destination Chicago elopement
Bride and groom feed each other donuts after their downtown Chicago elopement
Bride and groom with beer kegs at their Metropolitan Brewing wedding
Bride and groom exchange rings during intimate Chicago Cultural Center civil ceremony
Couple gives thumbs up after intimate New York City elopement ceremony at The High Line
Couple holds We Eloped sign for announcement after their New York City elopement
Bride and groom get ready at home together before Chicago Cultural Center civil ceremony
Brides in matching plaid in hotel room before their Alfred Caldwell Lily Pool wedding
Brides help each other get dressed before their Alfred Caldwell Lily Pool wedding ceremony
New York City elopement ceremony at The High Line during sunrise
Intimate wedding ceremony on outdoor patio at Metropolitan Brewing in Chicago
Couple's names and wedding rings with Bananagram letters at Chicago brewery wedding
Bride and groom at Chicago City Hall after their surprise holiday elopement
Candid photo of bride and groom with AMOR sculpture after their sunrise New York City elopement
Bride and groom on Chicago Riverwalk after their summer civil ceremony at Chicago Cultural Center
Brides tear up during emotional Alfred Caldwell Lily Pool wedding ceremony in Lincoln Park, Chicago
Chicago wedding photo of bride and groom on LaSalle Bridge after City Hall elopement
Newlyweds toast pints of beer during their Chicago brewery wedding at Metropolitan Brewing

Want to see more from these weddings? Check them out on the Blog!

Chris & Anne’s Stan’s Donuts Elopement
Katelyn & Corbin’s Cultural Center Civil Ceremony
Liz & Jen’s Lincoln Park Elopement
Kathia & Todd’s Metropolitan Brewing Wedding
Anj & Bo’s NYC Elopement
Katy & Justin’s Surprise Wedding
Alice & Harry Elope to Chicago

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